Thank you for the help KaptCrunch.
I really was able to update my BIOS at least at the point the date changed from 2002 to 2003.
But im still not able to detect my DVD-SATA device. Rather on the BIOS features or Windows.
Seems like there is a recent BIOS somewhere, but i cant find it... its make me crazy and thinking i spent my money for nothing.
Any other suggestions? Anyone... plz?!